Women- Is your view of beauty distorted?
In a world where an understanding of beauty is so often and pervasively distorted here is a post from the girltalk blog that has the potential of being quite helpful in adjusting our perspective.
Consider with me our culture’s physical beauty yardstick–for women then and women now as explained by author David Powlison:A hundred years ago women might have compared themselves with the other ten girls in the village. Today, women compare themselves with pictures of the cream of the worldwide fashion industry.
And what ideal image does the worldwide fashion industry put forth as the standard for beauty by which today’s woman is to measure herself?
Well, take a look at what a group of professional hair stylists, make-up artists, and photographers in cahoots with computer graphics were able to create (click on the picture to watch the video):
To think that women are striving to look like someone who doesn’t even look like herself. It’s absurd!
The Dove Campaign got it partially right—the fashion industry has certainly contributed to a distorted perception of beauty. And yet, their solution—“every girl deserves to feel beautiful just the way she is”—is well-meaning and yet fundamentally unbiblical.
You see, women believe that physical beauty will make them happy, successful, popular among the women, desirable to the men – so they pursue it with a fury!
Physical beauty, however, does not deliver as advertised. Proverbs 31:30 reveals the falsehood and the futility of this quest for beauty: Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain.
Even if every girl did “feel beautiful just the way she is,” it wouldn’t bring her true joy or lasting happiness or solve even one of her problems.
Truth be told, what we all deserve is not to feel beautiful but rather to be condemned to hell for sinfully seeking to attract the worship of our fellow creatures instead of living to bring glory to God.
God did not send Jesus to this earth to die so that women could get over their self-esteem problem and feel better about themselves. No, He sent his Son to die to rescue us from our sinful, futile quest for physical beauty and to reveal to us the satisfaction that comes from knowing God—whether we are beautiful or not!
What freedom and hope is found in Christ! We don’t need to feel beautiful about ourselves to find happiness! In fact, we’re better off not even thinking about ourselves. Rather, God has offered us in Jesus Christ forgiveness, hope, freedom from sin and a joy that never ends.
So while this little video effectively exposes the false front of beauty presented by our culture, let’s not look to Dove’s advertising executives for the solution to the beauty crisis. Rather, let’s join the campaign to tell others of the true freedom that is found in Christ!
May God, not self be supreme among the women of ASGF. May the gospel, not attention be valued among the women of ASGF. May God give grace so that our women will adorn the gospel by their godly character and good deeds.

October 18th, 2006 at 2:27 pm
Amen to this great article — how truly convicted we women should feel if we are “sinfully seeking to attract the worship of our fellow creatures instead of living to bring glory to God.” Again, if we focus on our “feelings” first, forgetting the divine order, we will find ourselves seeking mankind’s approval rather than God’s.
October 30th, 2006 at 12:41 pm
So that is why I am ugly. Now that is out of the way. My first thoughts were how silly of us to enjoy physical beauty it will come to nothing in the end. After all Jesus was not a person of unique physical beauty. We should only enjoy the eternal characteristics of a person. (I tend to take things to the extreme) Then I started to think about my wife who posses a physical beauty in addition to her spiritual beauty. Should her physical beauty have been a non-issue*? God created beauty in Sarah but like anything it can become an idol. The natural tendency clearly errs on the side of over adoration of beauty rather than an unhealthy self abasement. As wrong as it is to seek after beauty it would be wrong to seek after a false homliness.
Really this all comes down to is it okay to wear makeup or something. God created beauty and as long as it is for His glory both for the admirer and the admiree it is a good thing.
So basically the above are my thoughts and they have no warranty on them so be careful. Though they do try to apply the principles from Romans 14 that Tim preached on 10/29/06.
*Clearly physical attraction was not important to Sarah. Anyone seen Sarah wear glasses, didn’t think so, she has them, but apparently I am easier on the eyes without them…
October 30th, 2006 at 2:21 pm
Nick- good points. I think you are right in saying that the problem is that beauty becomes an idol. What God gave to enjoy for His glory becomes something we seek to enjoy for our glory. What God gave to point to Him and His greatness we try and turn in order to point to ourselves and our supposed greatness. On our own our natural hearts are adept at distorting God’s design and producing idols.
Praise God for grace and for the redeeming of all things in Christ.